As You Wish

Princess BrideYour will be done.  Really?  Who says that?  I tease our sons that the line from Princess Bride, “As you wish.” Should be their go to response for their wives.  Whether you prefer “as you wish” or “your will be done,” submission is what the speaker of either phrase is granting someone.

Twice, during prayer, Jesus models this for us.  The first time is when Jesus is asked to teach the disciples to pray.  In this model prayer Jesus simply states “Your will be done.” (Matt 6:10 & Luke 11:2).  Jesus is teaching us to seek God’s will when we pray.  The second prayer is when Jesus is praying in the garden.  He not only prays this once, but twice that night.  “O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.” (Matthew 26:39).  Here Jesus is asking for a pass from the cross and even more so, a pass from taking on of all the sins of the world creating a separation between Him and His father.  Then He pauses and says, “nevertheless” or never mind – not my will, but yours.

Praying for God’s will takes courage.  Even as a young girl, I was always afraid to just openly pray for God’s will.  What if He wanted me to do something crazy like leave my mom and dad and go to the mission field.  Don’t judge, it always crossed my mind.  In all seriousness, last night as I was out watering plants, I was praying for a break.  I was just telling God from the bottom of my heart that I needed a break.  I was asking for just one day to take it easy, one day just for me.  I will admit, I mentioned a spa day and even possibly a quick weekend getaway.  When it suddenly occurred to me how selfishly I was praying.  I immediately recognized  that I should be praying for the energy and stamina to do what God has placed in front of me, not praying for a break.  I had to throw up the same “never mind” that Jesus did when He was praying.  I was praying for Angela’s will not God’s will.

I’ve been called out on this before.  Once my daughter was dating a guy I didn’t really like.  I was praying for every kind of break-up you could imagine.  One of them would find someone else, her eyes would be open, his parents would move out of state…. As they were getting a little more serious, I decided to rally the troops.  I did what any praying mom would do.  I called my best, praying friend and asked her to join me.  We know where two or more are gathered, there is power in that prayer.  With her help, we would make this breakup happen.  However, I didn’t get the response from my friend that I was expecting.  She simply asked me if I had thought about praying for this young man and praying that he would develop a relationship with Christ.  Ouch, NO! I had not thought about praying that way.  I was praying for a breakup.  Again, praying for Angela’s will not God’s will.

How do we know God’s will so we can pray that way?  Ask.  Just simply ask Him and then listen.  The more time you spend with Him, the more you will know His will, and the more you will desire to submit to it.  Don’t worry, the odds are really slim that He will ask you to sell everything and go to Siberia.

 

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Author: Angela Grunewald

Just a mom/wife/educator who loves the Lord and wants to share my thoughts.

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